September 14, 2025

Flow: Ingathering Water Communion with Backpack Blessing
Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

We’re sad to report both the livestream and the backup failed for this service. A recording is not available.

We begin a new congregational year with a joyful all-ages service celebrating connection and possibility. Bring a small amount of water from a place that holds meaning for you to add to our communal bucket, symbolizing the community we create together. Bring a backpack or bag for a special blessing as we enter a new year of learning and growing. Let’s flow into a new year, together. 

Music: Michael Rosin, UU Singers, Roots and Wings Drum Choir

September 7, 2025

Love You Back                                                      Ted Fetter, guest speaker, UUCP

The Seventh Principle of our faith is “respect for the interconnected web of all existence.”  The new set of UU Values in our UUA Bylaws lists “Interdependence” as one of the key elements of Unitarian Universalism.  Let’s explore Interconnectedness at this time of division and separation in our culture.  We need a social understanding of ourselves and our place in the world. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita; Tom Cioppa & Jesse Deane, guitarists

Ted Fetter is retired from government work with 40 years of experience in Unitarian Universalism. His home congregation is Princeton, NJ. He works a lot in racial justice and immigration programs, both in UU circles and outside them. His UU volunteer roles include regional leadership with the former Metro New York District of the UUA, active work with UU FaithAction New Jersey and especially its Immigration Justice Task Force, roles with the UUA Board of Trustees, and chairing the Board of the Starr King School for the Ministry. He and his wife Jane have been married for 55 years and are proud to have three sons and five grandchildren.

August 31, 2025

Whistle While You Work                                  Rev. Julie Newhall, guest minister

Do you? Tomorrow is Labor Day, a labor-free celebration of workers that was a long time coming. Maybe Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs were onto something. Click here to watch the delightful service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director; Bob Killian, guest musician

The Reverend Julie Newhall, a longtime member of UUCMC, serves the UU Ocean County Congregation and speaks at UUCMC annually. She has served as a hospital chaplain, a teacher of World Religions, and as minister of numerous UU fellowships and congregations, including the Aukland (NZ) Unitarian Church.

Bob Killian, at the suggestion of UUCMC’s founding minister Harold Dean and help from many members here, in 1975 founded the Monmouth County Friends of Clearwater and the Annual Clearwater Festival at Sandy Hook. Bob will sing a song or two from those efforts. A 50th Anniversary Festival was held in Asbury Park on August 30.

August 24, 2025

Reflections on Hospital Chaplaincy as a UU
Patricia Hennigan, guest speaker, UUCP

Patricia recently completed her first unit of Clinical Pastoral Education at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital in New Brunswick, a Level 1 Trauma Center. She will share some reflections on her experience as a UU chaplain in an inherently multi-faith and pluralistic environment. She’ll explore how love, and many of our shared UU values, color the work of chaplaincy, and how they are illuminated by the work in turn. Click here to watch the recorded service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director

Patricia Hennigan has been a UU for twenty-five years and a member of the UU Congregation of Princeton for seventeen-ish years. She is an Aspirant to UU ministry, pursuing a Master of Divinity degree at Drew University Theological School in Madison, NJ.

August 17, 2025

Telling Our Stories
Friday Afternoon Covenant Circle

We all have humorous and poignant stories that may have remained unspoken and that need to be shared. The Friday afternoon Covenant Circle will hopefully inspire each of us to share our own stories so that we might communicate and nurture our connectedness with one another. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director

August 10, 2025

Adventures in the Apocalypse
Rev. Allen Wells, guest minister

Climate change is altering our planet and artificial intelligence is transforming us. How may we navigate these staggering changes with equanimity, love, and even JOY? Click here to watch the service.

Music: Brian Gilmore, piano

The Rev. Allen Wells is a Buddhist Teacher, Unitarian Universalist minister, and pastoral counselor. He is a member of the Morristown Unitarian Universalist Fellowship, NJ. He teaches at two local Buddhist sanghas and maintains a mindfulness based psychotherapy practice in Morristown. As minister, Allen has served UU congregations in Weymouth, Mass., Hollis Queens, The First Unitarian Church of Brooklyn, and the UU Congregation of Rockland, NY. He has also served as Director of Religious Education at the Morristown UU Fellowship and the UU Congregation of Monmouth County, NJ. For 15 years he served as a winter minister for the UU Fellowship of St. John, USVI. Allen is particularly interested in the interplay of neuroscience and the Buddhist understanding of mind. A long time activist for social justice and environmental sustainability, in this later stage of life he devotes himself primarily to study and contemplation. He loves poetry but he acknowledges that he hasn’t written any books because he says he would rather spend the present time ballroom dancing!

August 3, 2025

Joy as an Act of Resistance—and Revolutionary Love
Rev. Cindy Terlazzo, guest minister

Activist Valarie Kaur says: “In the face of horrors visited upon our world daily, in the struggle to protect our loved ones, choosing to let in joy is a revolutionary act. It returns us to everything that is good and beautiful and worth fighting for.” Let us join together on this day and make space for joy to arrive. Click here to watch this joyful service.

Music: Just Folk, Helen Kho

The Rev. Cindy Terlazzo is an ordained UU minister who has been serving the Unitarian Universalists of Gettysburg PA for the past 4 years. She and John recently moved to Rochester, NY to be closer to family. Cindy will begin new ministries with 2 small congregations in upstate NY in the fall. Cindy takes seriously the art of making room for Joy to arrive—particularly in these most curious and tumultuous times.

John Terlazzo is a Poet / Singer / Songwriter and Storyteller who performs and records with his band, Voices in the Hall, and leads Writing Retreats called The Flame in Every Hand: Writing as a Contemplative Act.

July 27, 2025

Sabbatical Revitalization.                               Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

The word “sabbatical” is tied to ancient practices of agriculture where, in the seventh year, the field is allowed to rest. After six years as your minister, both you and I will engage in a sort of adventure of rejuvenation and reorientation to our future together (not for a whole year, but for a few months). This morning, let us covenant with one another to do the work UUCMC asks of us as we meet the moments the world delivers to us. Just Folk joins us for a tribute to the late Peter Yarrow of “Peter, Paul, and Mary” fame. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Just Folk, Helen Kho

July 20, 2025

Poetry Creates Community                              Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano & friends

For three years now, Tea Time on Thursday afternoons at 4 PM has been a place where people get together, and through the exercise of each participant commenting on their experience of reading a poem I select, deep community is created in a virtual environment. This morning, we bring that Tea Time spirit to Sunday morning worship. Click here to watch the recorded service.

Music: Brian Gilmore, piano

July 13, 2025

Creating Less Anxious Days                             Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

It is the contention of sociologist and life coach Martha Beck that anxiety cannot just be ended; rather, it needs to be replaced with new, habitual ways of relating to the world that engage our creative energies. This morning, we will explore practices that can guide us thinking our way forward toward less anxious days. Click here to watch the inspiring service.

Music: Evan Schwartzman, piano; Joel DeWitt, violin

July 6, 2025

Absolute Freedom                                               “Rev. Faerie” Elaine Silver

A service in honor of different aspects of Freedom, including Independence Day, Juneteenth, and personal self-expression, presented in a context of Empathy, Light, and Celebration. Click here to watch this delightful service.

Music: Elaine Silver

“Rev. Faerie” Elaine Silver is a celebrated folk musician, spiritual teacher, and metaphysical minister whose luminous voice and heartfelt performances have inspired audiences across North America and Europe. With over 22 albums to her name, she blends original compositions with spiritual teachings rooted in New Thought, Science of Mind, and Earth-based traditions. Ordained as a Divinity Priestess in the Temple of Isis, she is also a licensed Science of Mind Practitioner (RScP) and Certified Beatlologist. Known for her “Faerie” persona, she infuses her concerts, workshops, and Sunday services with magic, love, and transformative energy, offering a musical ministry that uplifts and heals. Now joyfully rooted in Sarasota, Florida, Elaine continues to share her Spirit-inspired music with communities far and wide. She is delighted to be making her second appearance at UUCMC.

June 29, 2025

Beauty from a Different Angle                       Tim Geiselman

We are deeply and persistently attracted to the physical beauty in others. But what if we could temper that attraction and channel it towards who we are rather than how we look? How would our interactions with others be different? What are the insights and joys that are lost in a culture that chases physical beauty? This service will discuss those questions. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Dave Reilly

UUCMC member Tim Geiselman and his wife Rosane have been congregants at UUCMC since 2016. In the past he has spoken on Anne Frank, Parenthood, and Atheism.

June 22, 2025

A Spiritual Journey (What Exit?)                   Rev. Rhea Carol, Guest Minister

Dr. Ernest Holmes, in the Science of Mind textbook writes, “To meditate upon the Presence of God is to draw the Universe into one’s own soul. God is not a person but a principle personified in each of us. Spirituality is the atmosphere of this Principle.  Religion is its outward form.” I’ll share my spiritual journey traveling on the Garden State Parkway. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita

Rev. Rhea, a member of UUCMC, has studied Science of Mind for 40 years. She was the founder of Center for Spiritual Living in Asbury Park. She has given talks all over NJ and Paoli, PA. She holds guided meditations on the beach, weather permitting.

June 15, 2025

Freedom, and Then?                                            Rev. Charlie Dieterich, Guest Minister

Howard Thurman talked about the “Work of Christmas,” tasks which follow the celebration. I will explore one aspect of the continuing “Work of Freedom” as we honor Father’s Day. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Helen Kho, UkUlele Orchestra

Rev. Charlie Dieterich is a retired Minister living in Kingston, NJ. Rev. Charlie has served congregations in Erie, Pennsylvania, in Norfolk, Virginia, and in Pomona, New Jersey. In retirement he continues volunteer work with the UU Trauma Response Ministry and has become involved in local history and in ham radio.

June 8, 2025

A Multigenerational Celebration of New Members and Flower Communion
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano, CDFM Michelle McKenzie-Creech, Lisa Arcoleo

This morning, we finish out the congregational fiscal year, honor our new members, and take part in our annual Congregational Business Meeting. We also participate in Flower Communion, a uniquely UU ritual centered on the freedom to worship and live authentically. Please bring a flower with you to the service to add to bouquets symbolic of us all. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director; UU Singers

June 1, 2025

Inner Freedom and Friendship                     Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

LGBTQ+ Pride month begins this morning, and we will honor our congregational theme for the month of June—”freedom”—by finding the joyful relationships at the heart of true freedom: relationships of wholeness, authenticity, and profound friendship. And then UUCMC will march at the Asbury Park state-wide parade together to show some PRIDE in action. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director; Rev. Craig

May 25, 2025

8 Hugs a Day                                                         Rev. Rosemarie Newberry

The results are in: Our biological reactions to spiritual practices have been measured and they give us joy and happiness. The religious experience is becoming less and less valid as unique and separate, because of advanced scientific research. Let’s look at the evolution of science and religion today. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director

The Rev. Rosemarie Newberry is a retired Unitarian Universalist minister. She has been a member of UUCMC for over 30 years. She lives in Red Bank.

May 18, 2025

Bridges and Beacons: A Multigenerational Morning
UUCMC Youth, CDFM Michelle McKenzie-Creech, & Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

This special youth-led service honors the milestones of Coming of Age and Bridging. Our young people will reflect on how they embody their Unitarian Universalist values. As they cross thresholds and embark on the next chapters of their lives, they serve as beacons of insight and hope, reminding us of the courage it takes to grow, the light we each carry, and the love that connects us. Click here to watch the inspirational service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director; Rev. Craig; Benjamin Eittreim

May 11, 2025

A Celebration of the Imagination on Mother’s Day
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

No doubt there were several people or circumstances that inspired our imagination as we grew into adulthood. At the very least, someone was likely responsible for providing enough safety for our imaginations to take flight, perhaps those people who cared for us enough to put our well-being ahead of their own. This morning, we will celebrate people who lit the fire of our imaginations. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director; Rev. Craig

May 4, 2025

Unity in Diversity
Members of the Board of the Monmouth Center for World Religions and Ethical Thought

Now beginning its 31st year as an adjunct organization to UUCMC, the Monmouth Center (MCWRET) is all about respecting religious diversity and promoting the public’s understanding of different spiritual faiths and wisdom traditions. This service will explore how Oneness and Peace can be intertwined with Diversity. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director; Kevin Hoban, guest guitarist

April 27, 2025

Listening to the Colors of the Wind: Finding Climate Justice on a Living Planet
The UUCMC Green Sanctuary 2030 Team

The Green Sanctuary 2030 process asks UUs to look at Social Justice through the lens of Climate Justice; to care for people who are at greatest risk in the face of climate events—those who are unhoused, food insecure, or burdened with other disadvantages. Of course, mitigating human actions contributing to climate change is essential. We recognize that asking those at risk what they need leads to better outcomes than telling them what we think they need. Yet, we tend to overlook the value of using a similar approach to nonhumans. Living organisms have chemically and physically altered our planet for ≥ 3.7 billion years. The evolving network of life has a long track-record of adaptation and resilience. In this service, we will explore what might emerge if we ask how we can support living species of Earth as partners. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita; Sandy Sasso, guest singer

April 20, 2025

Hope is Risen: A Multigenerational Celebration of Easter
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano and CDFM Michelle McKenzie-Creech

At the heart of the Easter celebration is the rising of hope in the midst of death, the rising of light in the midst of darkness, the rising of solidarity in the midst of despair. Let us rise this Easter to a newfound articulation of the power of Unitarian Universalist values in a world that needs a big dose of Easter hope. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director; UU Singers; Sister Singers

April 13, 2025

Inviting “Elijah”: Celebrating the Spirit of Passover and Palm Sunday
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

One of the customs of Passover is to pour wine into a goblet for the Prophet Elijah and then to open the door for him. This generous spirit is something which we at UUCMC aspire towards—that all be welcome to walk through our doors. It was in this same spirit that Jesus of Nazareth is said to have arrived at the gates of Jerusalem to celebrate Passover—but the Roman authorities were not so welcoming. Lessons abound from these two powerful stories of Judaism and Christianity. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director

April 6, 2025

Inner Empire                                                        Rev. Mary Tiebout, guest minister

From ancient history to modern times, not everyone living under an imperial regime has surrendered to its demands. Amid concerns about the current rise of religious and political powers, we turn to sources that remind us where we can find the strength to stand our ground on behalf of ourselves and others, and when in our lives we have done that. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Brian Gilmore, guest musician

Rev. Mary Tiebout has served UU congregations in NJ, CT, PA, and VT since her ordination in 1993. After having, until recently, taken care of her parents in their final years and days, Mary is back home in Pennsylvania, thinking about how best to engage in the struggles of this world, while at the same time, welcoming the soul- and spirit-nourishing gifts of spring.

March 30, 2025 

International Transgender Day of Visibility
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

Since 2009, on March 31st, the world has celebrated and honored the contributions to society by transgender and nonbinary people—and this year, when trust in our nation’s ability even to see our trans and gender expansive siblings in spirit has been frayed beyond recognition, it is all the more important to say, as a congregation, with love at the center, that advocating for transgender visibility is important, loving, and sacred work. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director; Sister Singers

March 23, 2025

For Such a Time as This: The Inspiration of Purim
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

We’ve crossed the Spring equinox, hope is springing up in the natural world around us, yet many hearts remain heavy, with forces imperiling our values on the rise. The finger puppets return to celebrate the Jewish festival of Purim. What can we learn from the story of Queen Esther in ancient Persia? Perhaps that we need to trust that we are where we are, doing what we are doing, for such a time as this.  Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director

March 16, 2025

Centered in Love: Stewardship Sunday
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

A congregation like ours, owned by its members, not the beneficiary of any ecclesial hierarchy, functions on trust—trust that the importance of living our values with one another and in the world will allow us to fund the communal project that is UUCMC. Our theme for the upcoming fiscal year beginning July 1st gives us our marching orders—Centered in Love: Living Our Values. Come, bring your pledge forms, bring your love, and bring your appetite, for our annual Stewardship Sunday/Pancake Breakfast! Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director; UU Singers

March 9, 2025

Have I Got A Story For You
Rev. Charles Loflin, Executive Director of Unitarian Universalist FaithAction NJ (UUFANJ)

Storytelling is a means of communicating that helps us make sense of the world. Stories are wondrous things but also dangerous. Thomas King says “Don’t say in the years to come that you would have lived your life differently if only you had heard this story. You’ve heard it now.” Click here to watch the recorded service on YouTube.

Music: Joel DeWitt, violin, and Music Director Emerita Elaine Held, piano

March 2, 2025

2025 Myra Zinke Lecture: Women’s Rights are Human Rights
Beth O’Connell, Internation Convocation of UU Women

In 1995 at the United Nations’ World Conference on Women in Beijing, then First Lady Hillary Clinton famously declared that women’s rights are not separate from human rights. At that ground-breaking conference, 189 governments agreed to a Platform for Action on gender equality. Now 30 years later what progress has—and has not—been made? How are women doing around the world, and in this country? Click here to watch the service.

Music: Brian Gilmore, Guest Musician

Beth O’Connell is a retired journalist. She began her career at newspapers including the Trenton Times and went on to television in Philadelphia and at CNN. She spent 20 years in Europe with Bloomberg News in London and the French news agency AFP in Paris. She was a member of the UU Fellowship of Paris. She returned to her native New Jersey a year and a half ago and lives in Bradley Beach. She is a board member of the International Convocation of Unitarian Universalist Women.

We don’t often realize that UUism is a global faith. The International Convocation of UU Women (ICUUW) is one of the rare UU groups committed to this perspective with a focus on the lives and dreams of women and girls. Partnering with local UU churches they support programs such as raising awareness of violence against women, building leadership and entrepreneurial skills, informing women of their rights from reproductive choice to land ownership. ICUUW is also an NGO with consultative status at the United Nations where they advocate for gender equality.

February 23, 2025

Uniquely Human                                                  Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

What does it mean to honor the full spectrum of human experience? This Sunday, we’ll delve into the concept of neurodiversity—celebrating the diverse ways our brains work, and the shared humanity that connects us all. Together, we’ll reflect on how embracing these differences can deepen our understanding of inclusion and create a more compassionate world. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Tenson Liang, Guest Musician

February 16, 2025

Inclusion, Random Acts of Kindness, Child Dedication
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano and Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

Although February 17 is Random Acts of Kindness Day, it is no random act of kindness to welcome recently-born children into our congregational community. Indeed, the ritual of Child Dedication is at the heart of what we do as Unitarian Universalists, the ultimate act of “inclusion,” our theme for February. This morning, we dedicate two children to our collective care. Please be present to witness and to take responsibility for this action. Click here to watch the joyful service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director; UU Singers

February 9, 2025

The Lesson of Honeybees: Inclusion as Collaboration
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

How does the idea of “collaboration” intersect with that of “inclusion”? Perhaps honeybees have something to teach us, for, according to experts, there really is no such thing as an individual honeybee—they are always a collective enterprise. And, as we look to work collectively with people outside of our congregation on projects of justice and inclusion, there are new ways of understanding how to collaborate that center following, rather than leading. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director

February 2, 2025

Getting to Know “Us”                                          Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

A few times a year, we offer a “Getting to Know UU(CMC)” course of three sessions, aimed primarily at newcomers, but always open to all. In honor of our having, following the service, the first such session in-person in a long time, I thought it would be a good time to review a bit of who “we” are as Unitarian Universalists and as members and friends of UUCMC…and to understand the implications of true “inclusion” (our congregational theme for February) on the definition of “we.” Click here to watch this powerful service.

Music: Michael Rosin, Music Director; Root & Wings Drum Choir

January 26, 2025 

Defying Gravity Through Story                    Rev. Dr. Mary Early-Zald, Guest Minister

They say that “History is written by the victors.” However, many stories, like Wicked, subvert notions of “winning.” Rev. Dr. Early-Zald will explore the power of untold narratives for rising above challenging times. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Tenson Liang, Guest Pianist

The Rev. Dr. Mary Early-Zald is a UU Minister and Chaplain who serves as the Affiliated Community Minister at Beacon Unitarian Universalist Congregation in Summit. Currently providing care with unhoused communities, she has also worked in Hospice, Hospital, and Movement Chaplaincy. Mary received her M.Div. at Vanderbilt Divinity School and her Ph.D. in Clinical Psychological at the University of Minnesota.

Tenson Liang is a concert pianist born in Taipei, Taiwan. Currently, he is a full scholarship recipient pursuing an Artist Diploma in Piano Performance at Rutgers University. A winner of multiple international piano competitions, Tenson is also passionate about teaching, having instructed over 100 students. He founded Classical Music Express, a nonprofit organization dedicated to bringing high-quality classical music concerts to the Kansas City community. In his free time, he enjoys cooking, reading, and outdoor adventures.

January 19, 2025

Living Multigenerationally into a New Tomorrow
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano & Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

On this Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. weekend, as we inaugurate new leadership around this country of ours, we pause to reflect on the stories we tell about our country, our congregation, and ourselves. We have the power, singly and collectively, to live into multigenerational, diverse Beloved Community, by telling a new story for a new tomorrow. And we welcome our new Music Director, Michael Rosin! Click here to watch the service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita; Michael Rosin, New Music Director; UU Singers, UkUlele Orchestra

January 12, 2025

The Story of Water: San Miguel de Allende, Mexico
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano 

In November, I met with the founder of Caminos de agua (Waterways), a vital organization in Mexico’s Upper Río Laja Watershed providing solutions to a multi-pronged crisis of access to fresh, healthy water. Alongside the UU Fellowship of San Miguel de Allende and its Social Justice Foundation, UUCMC can continue the unique international partnership for justice we forged over the past two years by contributing to Caminos’s actions benefiting the area’s over 740,000 people facing falling aquifer levels, failing well systems, and dangerous levels of arsenic and fluoride poisoning. Let’s help change the story and be part of solutions for health and dignity. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Tom McCormack

Tom McCormack has performed on club and college stages across the country as a solo artist, with his band and with his presentation “Hate Speech & Love Songs.” He has released three CDs, written & produced music for HBO, Cinemax, and the Style network, and co-founded GLAMA, the Gay/Lesbian American Music Awards.

Here’s how to donate:

Clicking on the link here takes you to the webpage of the UU Fellowship of San Miguel de Allende (UUFSMA)’s Social Justice Foundation. There is a drop-down menu where you can select Caminos de agua. Enter an amount, consider offsetting the credit card fee, and proceed to the payment option pages. You will be asked to provide the name of our congregation (UU Congregation of Monmouth County). Please do, so that our giving efforts can consolidate and represent us and our values.

January 5, 2025

Resolving to Be Imperfect: Fire Communion
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano 

I invite us to begin the year by resolving not to be perfect, by granting ourselves forgiveness, by offering love both inwardly and outwardly. But, sure, let’s have some goals, and let’s discard practices that haven’t worked in the past. We will engage in an exercise asking us to write down those things we want to release, and then we will burn those pieces of paper in a communal cauldron to enter this new year with a new story, with freshness of purpose. And, there will be dancing! Click here to watch the service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita; Core of Fire Interfaith Dance Ministry; Dr. Carol Penn

December 29, 2024 

Reminiscences, Writings, Readings            UUCMC Members 

Come listen to congregants share what is on their minds and in their hearts—a meaningful way to deepen our connections to each other through words, music, and dance. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Dr. David and Sarah Fischell; Core of Fire Interfaith Dance Ministry

December 24, 2024, 8pm Service

Christmas in the Barn: Family Candlelight Service
Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM and Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano 

Join us as we explore the heartwarming journey of the Grinch, whose heart was “two sizes too small” but grew three sizes, reminding us of the power of love and community. This service of songs and stories includes our pageant, “Christmas in the Barn,” with a part for every child. Arrive a little early to collect your costume. In the UU tradition, we believe that every child is the hope of this world. Click here to watch the family service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita; UkUlele Orchestra; Rev. Craig

December 24, 2024, 4pm Service

Christmas in the Barn: Family Candlelight Service
Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM and Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano 

Join us as we explore the heartwarming journey of the Grinch, whose heart was “two sizes too small” but grew three sizes, reminding us of the power of love and community. This service of songs and stories includes our pageant, “Christmas in the Barn,” with a part for every child. Arrive a little early to collect your costume. In the UU tradition, we believe that every child is the hope of this world. Click here to watch the family service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita; UkUlele Orchestra; Rev. Craig

December 22, 2024

A Multigenerational Litany of Lights (and Solstice and Hanukkah!)
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano and Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

One of the favorite services of UUCMC’s year, this Sunday we bring many faith traditions together onto a common table of dedication, lighting candles of joy after the longest night of the year, with special attention paid to the festival of Hanukkah. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita; UU Singers; Just Folk; Dr. David Fischell

December 15, 2024 

Giving the Present of Presence                       Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

This morning, we dig into our theme for the month of December: presence. No, not presents, although we are perhaps more likely to have the latter on our minds than the former. How can we give one another and ourselves the gift of presence? Click here to watch the service. 

Music: Brian Gilmore, Guest Musician

December 8, 2024 

The Spirit of Advent                                             Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

This Sunday, we are well into the holiday season, mere days till Christmas, and it seems prudent to slow down a bit, enjoy one another, and live into the spirit of Advent, which is characterized by waiting, and by values of hope, love, joy, and peace. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Brian Gilmore, Guest Musician

December 4, 2024
Re-do of the November 10, 2024 Service

Let Us Repair                                                  Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

The November 10th service, the Sunday following the elections, fell victim to several technological failures, resulting in neither a livestream nor a recording. Many of you have expressed sorrow at not having had access to it, not being able to rewatch it, not being able to send it to friends and family—so, for the first time in UUCMC history, on Wednesday, December 4th at noon, we repeated the November 10 service in its entirety:

This morning, we focus on the meanings of the word “repair”—not merely “to fix that which is broken,” but “to go,” “to rally.” We don’t know what the results of the elections will bring (if there will even be a complete accounting by this date), but we do know this: we will be there for one another. So, let us repair to our beloved Earth Room, to our Community Room, and begin the work of repair, together. Click here to watch the 11/10/24 service (re-done on 12/4).

Music: Evan Schwartzman, Joel DeWitt

Evan Schwartzman, pianist and composer, received his Masters in Theory and Composition from Rutgers University. As a pianist, he has given recitals as soloist and chamber music musician throughout the NY metropolitan region. His work can be found on CGNJ Recordings, Smithsonian Folkways Recordings, and all the usual streaming services.

December 1, 2024

From Presence to Transcendence
Pat Hoppe, UUCMC Member

Three times in my life I was present to the universe, magical moments that changed my life. In one instance, I was trundling along in a bright yellow school bus on a narrow dirt road in southern Indiana, 65 years ago. On my lap was an anthology of literature that contained Edna St Vincent Millay’s poem, “Renascence.” In another, I woke from a dream that turned out to be a premonition of events that happened that very day. This event led me to ask: How are we connected? What force connects us to the future so that we see it before it happens? Important questions. Come share a morning of Presence and Transcendence with me. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Brian Gilmore, Guest Musician

November 24, 2024

A Multigenerational Bread Communion Thanksgiving
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano and Sari Alburtus

If it is true that “you eat what you are,” that the foods of our childhoods reflect our heritages—our places of origin, the folks that brought us up—then sharing from that bounty will bring us into greater knowledge of one another. This Thanksgiving service, for the first time since before the pandemic, we hold a Bread Communion. Please volunteer to bring in a bread that reflects you in some way, and bring a palate open enough to embrace all the breads of our lives. Click here to watch the joyful service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita; UU Singers; Paul Vallin

November 17, 2024

Lessons from the Mountain                             Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

Mountaineer Conrad Anker says, “The summit is what drives us, but the climb itself is what matters.” This service will draw upon the peaks and valleys of my sabbatical travel through the Appalachian mountains. We will consider the narratives that define us and how embracing the complexities of our own stories can lead to renewal and growth. Click here to watch the beautiful service.

Music: Tenson Liang, guest musician

Tenson Liang is a concert pianist born in Taipei, Taiwan. Currently, he is a full scholarship recipient pursuing an Artist Diploma in Piano Performance at Rutgers University. A winner of multiple international piano competitions, Tenson is also passionate about teaching, having instructed over 100 students. He founded Classical Music Express, a nonprofit organization dedicated to bringing high-quality classical music concerts to the Kansas City community. In his free time, he enjoys cooking, reading, and outdoor adventures.

November 10, 2024

Let Us Repair                                                       Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

We are very sad to report both our livestream AND backup systems failed, and we do not have a recording of this service. PLEASE SEE December 4, 2024 for a recording of this service, re-done on that Wednesday.

This morning, we focus on the meanings of the word “repair”—not merely “to fix that which is broken,” but “to go,” “to rally.” We don’t know what the complete results of the elections will bring, but we do know this: we will be there for one another. So, let us repair to our beloved Earth Room, to our Community Room, and begin the work of repair, together.

Music: Evan Schwartzman, guest; Joel DeWitt

Evan Schwartzman, pianist and composer, received his Masters in Theory and Composition from Rutgers University. As a pianist, he has given recitals as soloist and chamber music musician throughout the NY metropolitan region. His work can be found on CGNJ Recordings, Smithsonian Folkways Recordings, and all the usual streaming services.

November 3, 2024

The Feast of All Souls                                        Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

Our annual service and ceremony of honoring the souls of those lost to us during the past year. This year, we assemble a collection of photographs of the departed as, once again, we hear the litany of the departed. Please get names to Lisa by Friday, November 1st at the latest, and bring in photos of your loved ones, human and otherwise. In a month when our theme is repair, we gather to grieve, and to heal, together. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita; UU Singers

October 27, 2024

Justice: The Nine Commandments               Rev. Charles Dieterich, guest minister

We open a dusty old book to consider what equal justice looks like . . . and two commandments concerning donkeys. Also . . . “Blessing of the Spirits”:  please come to the service in costume for a blessing before Halloween—and a parade! Click here to watch the service.

Music: Madeline Giordana, guest musician

The Rev. Charlie Dieterich is a retired Minister living in Kingston, NJ. Rev. Charlie has served congregations in Erie, Pennsylvania, in Norfolk, Virginia, and in Pomona, New Jersey. In retirement he continues volunteer work with the UU Trauma Response Ministry and has become involved in local history and in ham radio.

Madeline Giordana is a pianist with a special love for collaboration., Ever since her eighth grade choir teacher asked her to accompany a concert, she’s been hooked on making music with others. Some of her favorite settings include musical theater productions, choir concerts, and worship services. She recently moved to New Jersey from Wisconsin to begin a job at Rutgers in the career services office. Madeline holds a Bachelor of Arts in mathematics from Saint Olaf College in Minnesota and a master’s degree in educational psychology and counseling from the University of Minnesota. She loves her two cats, swing dancing, crafting with friends, crossword puzzles, and quality time with her partner, Eric. 

October 20, 2024

Multigenerational CROP Walk Sunday
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano and Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

In every single county in the United States, people face food insecurity—1 in 6 Americans, including 14 million children. On this day when we walk for food justice in the annual Red Bank CROP Walk, may we be reminded that hunger is closer to our lives than we think, and may we be thankful for the work being done in our midst. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Just Folk

October 13, 2024

Listening to Our Stories                                    Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano and Friends

Just prior to our first Interim Congregational Meeting of 2024–25 is an apt time to practice what we mean by deep listening by listening to one another. When it is so easy to hear nothing but ideology in the voices of others, the key to peaceful coexistence is perhaps to listen to the biographies, the contexts, of those voices. Click here to watch the recorded service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita

October 6, 2024

Grateful: High Holy Days                                 Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano and Kristi Nelson, guest

Again, we turn—we return—to our lives, to our loves, to our regrets, and, in being given the space to do such an accounting, we are filled with gratitude. The Jewish High Holy Days invite us all to take a moment, ask for forgiveness, forgive, make amends, and turn the page. Following her workshop yesterday, Kristi Nelson remains with us for this special worship service during a time of year, in which, hopefully, in her words, we take nothing for granted. Click here to watch the beautiful service.

Music: Tom McCormack, Paul Sherman

Kristi Nelson is the author of Wake Up Grateful: The Transformative Practice of Taking Nothing for Granted. She is currently an Ambassador for Grateful Living and served as the organization’s Executive Director from 2014–22. Her life’s work in the non-profit sector has focused on leading, inspiring, and strengthening organizations committed to progressive social and spiritual change. Being a long-time stage IV cancer survivor moves her every day to support others in living and loving with great fullness of heart.

Tom McCormack has performed on club and college stages across the country as a solo artist, with his band and with his presentation “Hate Speech & Love Songs.” He has released three CDs, written & produced music for HBO, Cinemax, and the Style network, and co-founded GLAMA, the Gay/Lesbian American Music Awards.

September 29, 2024

The Riddle and the Mystery                           Rev. Cindy Terlazzo, guest minister

Humankind has created countless stories to try to explain the mystery that surrounds everything. That is all religion really is—people wondering about where we came from, why we are here, and what comes next. Today’s service invites us to join in that exploration. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita

The Rev. Cindy Terlazzo comes to us today from the Gettysburg congregation in Pennsylvania where she has been serving part time for the past 3 years. Cindy recently retired from serving individuals with an intellectual disability as a social worker. She and her husband John moved to Rochester, NY in August to live closer to family and watch grandchildren grow up in every day time. She is delighted to join you today to explore some of life’s biggest questions—Where Did We Come From and Where Are We Going.

September 22, 2024

Mabon: An Invitation to Renewal                 Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

The pagan holiday of Mabon celebrates the September equinox (this year at 8:43 AM this morning) as a time of balance and gratitude during what historically (in the northern hemisphere) was the second and final harvest before the arrival of colder weather. Mabon’s commemoration invites us into contemplation, reflection, and preparation for a new time in our lives together. Today is also the first day of Banned Books Week 2024, and we will be inspired by those who are in the struggle to maintain our libraries. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Ian Kanev, guest musician

Ian Kanev is a Performing Arts major with an emphasis on piano at Ocean  County Community College (OCC), and is a piano student of Brian Gilmore. His projected date of graduation with an associate’s degree is May 2025, after which he plans to pursue a bachelor’s degree at a music conservatory for Performance Piano. Prior to enrolling at OOC, Ian traveled extensively with his family and solo. His goal is to perform for audiences around the world. Ian has found his true path in performance piano and classical music, and he attributes much of that drive to his professor, Brian Gilmore.

September 15, 2024

Preemptive Radical Inclusion: A Model for Invitation          Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

What if we presupposed, as a radical stance of invitation, that everyone is already in the room? That is at the heart of Preemptive Radical Inclusion (PRI), a set of practices and perspectives pioneered by UU educator CB Beal. This morning, we will look at how an invitation needs to be followed up by inviting acts of hospitality, setting us on a journey toward collective justice and liberation. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Ian Kanev, guest musician

Ian Kanev is a Performing Arts major with an emphasis on piano at Ocean  County Community College (OCC), and is a piano student of Brian Gilmore. His projected date of graduation with an associate’s degree is May 2025, after which he plans to pursue a bachelor’s degree at a music conservatory for Performance Piano. Prior to enrolling at OOC, Ian traveled extensively with his family and solo. His goal is to perform for audiences around the world. Ian has found his true path in performance piano and classical music, and he attributes much of that drive to his professor, Brian Gilmore.

September 8, 2024

Multigenerational Ingathering: All Things Grow with Love
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano and Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

We inaugurate a new congregational year with a theme of “Seeds of Love.” Bring your new energy, your new determination, your new commitment to building community together. And bring your backpacks (or wherever you carry your things)—there will be a backpack blessing and a take-home charm to remind us, especially our young people, that the Love of UUCMC is with us all through the week. And bring your Love for our outgoing Music Director of 18 years, Dr. Louise Chernosky. Louise leaves us in order to tend another musical garden. We will let her know how much she has meant to us, both in the worship service, and at a celebratory Community Hour afterwards. All things grow with love: Louise’s tenure has demonstrated that over and over again. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Dr. Louise Chernosky, UU Singers, UkUlele Orchestra, Elaine Held, Rev. Craig

September 1, 2024

The Impact of Domestic Violence                Dr. Kathryn Lynch, guest speaker

Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior used by one partner to gain and maintain power and control over another. It is more than just physical abuse, and can include emotion abuse, economic abuse, psychological abuse, and sexual abuse. The partner’s chronic abuse of power controls the victim by threats and intimidation. There are many reasons why someone cannot leave their abusive relationships. Domestic violence agencies are important, as they offer support to survivors to identify the abusive relationship and provide resources to help the survivor leave and remain safe. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Ron Jackson, guitar; PJ Casbar, Karen Geer

Dr. Kathryn Lynch began her career with YWCA Union County as an intern nearly 10 years ago. Since her internship, Kathryn has been promoted numerous times holding positions such as the STEP Job Specialist, STEP Coordinator, Director of Community Support Services, and Assistant Executive Director before becoming the Interim Executive Director in March 2024. Under her leadership, Kathryn has mentored both new and experienced staff through the YWCA helping all further the mission of empowering women and eliminating racism. Kathryn Lynch has a Bachelor of Social Work and Master of Social Work from Seton Hall University, and a Doctorate of Social Work from Capella University.

Ron Jackson is a world-renowned, seven-string jazz guitarist, composer, and educator. He has performed, recorded, and taught music in over 30 countries. Most recently Jackson produced, composed, and played on Kevin Powell’s GRAMMY® Award nominated album, Grocery Shopping With My Mother. A notable career as a recording artist, Jackson has put out more than 10 albums as a leader starting with his debut album, It’s A Guitar Thing (Muse), in 1992. His most recent release, Standards And My Songs, was Top 10 on the JazzWeek radio chart in 2022, and is his second recorded exclusively on the seven-string. Jackson is one of a handful of master jazz guitarists in the world who plays and teaches six and seven-string jazz guitar. He has performed as a leader at jazz festivals all over the world, such as the North Sea Jazz Festival, the Edinburgh Jazz Festival, The AAPI Jazz Festival, and the Super Jazz Ashdod Festival in Israel. He is a 2022 recipient of The South Arts JazzRoad Grant. Jackson plays frequently in his home base of New York City as a leader and sideman at The Django, Zinc Bar, Birdland, Bar Lunatico, St. Peter’s Church, and City Vineyard.

August 25, 2024

The Spirituality of Dungeons and Dragons           Pauline Nijander, guest speaker

Dungeons & Dragons has seen a resurgence in recent years due to appearances in pop culture, in particular due to the pandemic. But, is it possible that this tabletop role-playing game can be more than just a game? Could there be spiritual things that one can get from playing? Join us on this Sunday as we explore whether Dungeons & Dragons, and other similar games, can allow us to explore our own or others’ spiritualities and so much more! No prior knowledge of Dungeons & Dragons required! Click here to watch the service.

Music: Dr. Louise Chernosky and Joel DeWitt

Pauline E. Nijander recently completed her Master of Divinity program at the Drew University Theological School in Madison, NJ where she was studying for the Unitarian Universalist ministry. She received an award for excellence in homiletics (preaching) in the 2021–22 academic year and an award for excellence in leadership in 2023–24. Pauline has been a member of the UU Congregation of Princeton since 2013, where she has served in various leadership roles and is now one of its two Seminarians. As a proud trans woman and lesbian, Pauline has spoken often to different community and student groups about her perspective and life in hopes of educating people through honest and engaging conversation about trans* life and issues. For this work, she was awarded the 2017 Triad House LGBTQ+ Champion Award from LifeTies. Along with her wife, Michelle, and their sweet pitbull, Ingrid, Pauline resides in Ewing, NJ.

August 18, 2024

Music, Music, Music: A Hymn Sing!             Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita

There is no other place where most people can come together to sing, than in houses of worship. And UUCMC is no different. We are a robust singing community and we each have our favorites to sing. So Come, Come Whoever You Are and sing your favorite songs and hymns from our hymnal.  Click here to watch the service.

Music: Elaine Held, organ and piano, Sister Singers, and Kirsten Norberg, soprano

Elaine Held, UUCMC Music Director Emerita, has been a member of this congregation for over 25 years. She was its first paid Music Director, and, after retiring, she continued to support the music program on a volunteer basis as a member of the Music Committee, playing the organ and piano when needed, and organizing and directing the Sister Singers.

Kirsten Norberg has a long history of musical endeavors. Her first foray into musical theater was as Mary Magdalene in Godspell. Notable newer performances include the role of the mother in Amahl and the Night Visitors, performances in the ongoing concert series Honoring Women Composers, recitals with Roosevelt Credit, and many choral solos in area churches. Kirsten lives in High Bridge, NJ with her 3 children Arya, Cole and Finn, and by day is a marketing analitics executive. Kirsten holds a Bachelor in Mathematics from Ithaca College, and a Masters in Statistics from USC Santa Barbara.

August 11, 2024

The Gifts of Poetry                                  Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano & Tea Time Friends

Poetry embodies the gifts that relationships of all kinds provide. How many of us have given a gift of poetry to someone to celebrate a special occasion? Through encounters with poetry, people are allowed the gift of finding their lives reflected through new frames of meaning. Tea Time enters its third year on Thursday afternoons when we gather to discuss a poem and, in the process, share our lives. This morning, we’ll hear from several of our Tea Time friends, and experience the beauty of the work of singer-songwriter Tom McCormack. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Tom McCormack

Tom McCormack has performed on club and college stages across the country as a solo artist, with his band and with his presentation “Hate Speech & Love Songs.” He has released three CDs, written & produced music for HBO, Cinemax and the Style network, and co-founded GLAMA, the Gay/Lesbian American Music Awards.

August 4, 2024

Transforming Our Community…One Student at a Time
Dr. Margaret McMenamin, guest speaker

The world around us is changing rapidly—and some say not for the good. At UCNJ, we are focused on making the world a better place by giving young people an opportunity to earn a college degree. Our work is God’s work. Click here to watch the service.

Music: Ron Jackson, guitar

Dr. Margaret M. McMenamin is the President of UCNJ—Union College of Union County, NJ. During her tenure at Union, the College quintupled its graduation rate. In October 2020, Dr. McMenamin was named the National Marie Y. Martin CEO of the Year by the Association of Community College Trustees. In 2023, the Aspen Institute for College Excellence named Union as one of the Top 25 community colleges in America and a Semifinalist for the $1 million Aspen Prize for Community College Excellence.

Ron Jackson is a world-renowned, seven-string jazz guitarist, composer, and educator. He has performed, recorded, and taught music in over 30 countries. Most recently Jackson produced, composed, and played on Kevin Powell’s GRAMMY® Award nominated album, Grocery Shopping With My Mother. A notable career as a recording artist, Jackson has put out more than 10 albums as a leader starting with his debut album, It’s A Guitar Thing (Muse), in 1992. His most recent release, Standards And My Songs, was Top 10 on the JazzWeek radio chart in 2022, and is his second recorded exclusively on the seven-string. Jackson is one of a handful of master jazz guitarists in the world who plays and teaches six and seven-string jazz guitar. He has performed as a leader at jazz festivals all over the world, such as the North Sea Jazz Festival, the Edinburgh Jazz Festival, The AAPI Jazz Festival, and the Super Jazz Ashdod Festival in Israel. He is a 2022 recipient of The South Arts JazzRoad Grant. Jackson plays frequently in his home base of New York City as a leader and sideman at The Django, Zinc Bar, Birdland, Bar Lunatico, St. Peter’s Church, and City Vineyard.

July 28,2024

Human Sexuality*                                                 Rev. Rosemarie Newberry, guest minister

The Unitarian Universalist Association and the United Church of Christ have spent a lot of time and money over 20 years developing a comprehensive program about human sexuality. The children’s programs of Our Whole Lives are very popular. Yet, the adults don’t seem to think that they need to learn more after their 30s. Let’s talk about why we need to be lifelong learners of human sexuality. Parents, please use discretion about keeping children under the age of 13 in the sanctuary during this service.

*We’re sorry to report that technical difficulties resulted in this service not being available to view.

Music: Rich Grossman and Helen Benham

The Rev. Rosemarie Newberry is a retired minister and chaplain. She has served in congregations in NJ, NY, and OH. Also, she served as a chaplain for adults with developmental disabilities. She has four grandchildren, a cat, and a big trip planned for September to attend the International UU Women’s peace conference in Transylvania. She lives in Red Bank, NJ and loves the NJ Shore. She has been a member of UUCMC for over 30 years.

Rich Grossman received his Master’s degrees in clarinet performance and music education from the Hartt School of Music, University of Hartford. He has been a member of regional orchestras as well as the director and a conductor of the Colts Neck Community Band for 12 years. Since moving to Tucson, Arizona, he has continued to perform and conduct in the Southwest.

Helen Benham received her Mus.B. degree in piano from Oberlin Conservatory of Music and her B.A. degree from Oberlin College in German. She received her M.S. from The Juilliard School and Ph.D. from the Graduate Program in Music from Rutgers. Ms. Benham has given piano recitals and has performed chamber music as well in renowned concert halls throughout Europe, Canada, Taiwan, South Korea, and the US.

July 21, 2024

Hope      Worship Committee members (Joe Donahue, Allison Mitchell, Marinel Mukherjee, Liz Tortorella)

Join  members of the Worship Committee as they explore hope from different perspectives and share thoughts, experiences, and readings that have helped them find hope in difficult times. Click here to watch the inspiring service.

Music: Madeline Giordana, piano

Madeline Giordana is a pianist with a special love for collaboration. Ever since her eighth grade choir teacher asked her to accompany a concert, she’s been hooked on making music with others. Some of her favorite settings include musical theater productions, choir concerts, and worship services. She recently moved to New Jersey from Wisconsin to begin a job at Rutgers in the career services office. Madeline holds a bachelor of arts in mathematics from Saint Olaf College in Minnesota and a masters degree in educational psychology & counseling from the University of Minnesota. She loves her two cats, swing dancing, crafting with friends, crossword puzzles, and quality time with her partner, Eric.

July 14, 2024

It’s all Meaningless and Very Precious        Rev. Allen Wells, Guest Minister

This is a Zen sermon in which I’ve proposed a koan for myself, “What is the meaning of Meaning?” I’d like to share my personal journey in responding to it. The title is a spoiler. Click here to watch the recorded service.

Music: Evan Schwartzman, piano; Joel DeWitt, violin

The Rev. Allen Wells is a Buddhist teacher, UU minister, and a pastoral counselor. He graduated from the Integrated Study Practice program of the Barre Center for Buddhist Studies, The Divinity School of the University of Chicago, and the Institute of Religion and Health in NYC. He is a member of the Morristown UU Fellowship, teaches at two local Buddhist sanghas, and maintains a mindfulness based psychotherapy practice in Morristown. As minister, Allen has served UU congregations in MA, NY, and USVI. Also he has served as DRE in Morristown and Lincroft.

Evan Schwartzman, pianist and composer, received his Masters in Theory and Composition from Rutgers University. As a pianist, he has given recitals as soloist and chamber musician throughout the NY metropolitan region. His work can be found on CGNJ Recordings, Smithsonian Folkways Recordings, and all the usual streaming services.

July 7, 2024

You Don’t Have to be an Addict to Be in Recovery       Harriet Rossetto, Guest Speaker

The question becomes, what are we recovering? We are recovering our wholeness, the essential authentic self of our birth. Why and how do we lose ourselves and how do we deal with our duality to recover wholeness, the shift from either/or to both/and thinking, from role-to-role to soul-to-soul relationships? Click here to watch the lovely service.

Music by Ron Jackson, jazz guitar; Karen Geer

Harriet Rossetto is the founder and executive vice president of Beit T’Shuvah, a residential treatment center and educational institution in West Los Angeles. She started Beit T’Shuvah over 30 years ago with a remarkable mission: to help broken souls and transform a broken system. Harriet believes that addiction is a malady of the soul requiring spiritual healing, which inspired her to create a thriving community that supports addicts of all kinds, regardless of where they are in life.

Ron Jackson is a world-renowned, seven-string jazz guitarist, composer, and educator. He has performed, recorded, and taught music in over 30 countries. Most recently Jackson produced, composed, and played on Kevin Powell’s GRAMMY® Award nominated album, Grocery Shopping With My Mother. A notable career as a recording artist, Jackson has put out more than 10 albums as a leader starting with his debut album, It’s A Guitar Thing (Muse), in 1992. His most recent release, Standards And My Songs, was Top 10 on the JazzWeek radio chart in 2022, and is his second recorded exclusively on the seven-string. Jackson is one of a handful of master jazz guitarists in the world who plays and teaches six and seven-string jazz guitar. He has performed as a leader at jazz festivals all over the world, such as the North Sea Jazz Festival, the Edinburgh Jazz Festival, The AAPI Jazz Festival, and the Super Jazz Ashdod Festival in Israel. He is a 2022 recipient of The South Arts JazzRoad Grant. Jackson plays frequently in his home base of New York City as a leader and sideman at The Django, Zinc Bar, Birdland, Bar Lunatico, St. Peter’s Church, and City Vineyard.

June 30, 2024

Growing Up Gay: 6 Decades of Survival, Acceptance and Happiness
PJ Casbar, Noël Robichaux

We start with a fun way to learn about the history of the Pride flag, and its symbolic importance around the world. Upon singing out the children, join PJ and Noel as they share thru words, song, and dance, their personal stories about what it was like growing up gay throughout the 6 decades of their lifetime, detailing their experience as survivors of a hate crime. How are these men dealing with the trauma and aftermath and what can be done to help fight current anti-LGBTQIA2S+ US legislation being passed in record numbers today. Click here to watch this deeply moving service.

Music by PJ Casbar, Noël Robichaux, Dr. Louise Chernosky, Betsy & Craig Sunada

PJ (Peter) Casbar received his BFA in Speech and Theater from Montclair State College in Montclair, New Jersey and completed intense curriculum studies at Hult Ashridge International Business School in Berkhamsted, England for a year. After co-creating and singing with a cappella quartets throughout the tristate area and being co-owner of a children’s national production company, PJ had a successful career as a Regional Director and Director of Retail for major retail companies throughout North America. PJ is happy to have retired from his very rewarding career and currently works at his dream job, a pet store!

Noël Robichaux was born in New Orleans where he danced with Ballet Hysell, and The New Orleans’ Repertory Dance Company before relocating to NYC and joining the Modern dance companies of MARY ANTHONY and RON BROWN while on scholarship with the DANCE THEATRE OF HARLEM. Noël co-founded two theater companies: BAD DOG as well as MERZWERX. Favorite roles include Medea in MEDEA with Expan Je ded Arts; Iago in OTHELLO with SHAKESPEARE IN THE PARKING LOT; and as an Ensemble cast member in UNCLE TOM’S CABIN OR LIFE AMONG THE LOWLY with The Drama Dept. at the Greenwich House Theatre in NYC.

June 23, 2024

Transformed by Love                                        Rev. Latasha Milton

At a time where the world is challenged with division, inequality, and injustice, love is needed as a beacon of hope to create a pathway towards a more compassionate and equitable society. Love is more than a sentiment confined to the realm of a personal relationship, but it is a powerful force for social transformation. Through the lens of bell hooks, we are reminded that love and justice are not polarized entities but are interconnected. We are called to biome agents of love to create a world that reflects the inherent worth and dignity of every individual. Click here to watch the lovely service.

Music by Ian Kanev

The Rev. Latasha Milton is Senior Pastor at Hamilton United Methodist Church in Neptune, NJ. She is passionate about God’s people being liberated to authentically serve God in the fullness of their gifts and talents. She desires to preach a transformative truth that reveals the heart of God to transform the world and liberate the oppressed from the margins. She is passionate about standing against injustices to children and youth and being a voice for education equity. She received a M.Div. from Princeton Theological Seminary with an emphasis in Black Church Study. She has a M.S. in Counseling and Early Childhood from the University of South Miss. She has a B.S. in Pre-Med. Biology with a minor in Chemistry. Prior to establishing residence in New Jersey, she called St. Louis, Missouri home. She is a licensed Zumba and Zumba Strong (combat) instructor. When she is not teaching Zumba, she enjoys photography, reading, playing golf and tennis, and watching sports. She is currently betrothed to Mathias.

Ian Kanev is a Performing Arts major with an emphasis on piano at Ocean County Community College (OCC), and is a piano student of Brian Gilmore. His projected date of graduation with an associate’s degree is May 2025, after which he plans to pursue a bachelor’s degree at a music conservatory for Performance Piano. Prior to enrolling at OCC, Ian traveled extensively with his family and solo. His goal is to perform for audiences around the world. Ian has found his true path in performance piano and classical music, and he attributes much of that drive to his professor, Brian Gilmore.

June 16, 2024

Parenthood – What They Fail to Cover in Lamaze Class                 Tim Geiselman, Guest Speaker

Parenthood is unique. While it has a clearly defined starting point, it has no end point. It is a journey without an arrival. This service will focus on the open-ended quality of parenthood and the adjustments we’re forced to make along the way. Whether you are a parent or not, we are all touched by this complex cycle, so please attend for the laughs and tears that we will discuss. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita, Tom Cioppa

Tim Geiselman has been a congregant at the UUCMC since 2016. In the past he has provided homilies on Anne Frank, Atheism and Imagination. He and his wife Rosane live in Middletown and have one son.

Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita, has been a member of UUCMC for over 25 years. She was the first paid Music Director, and after retiring, she continued to support the music program on a volunteer basis as a member of the Music Committee, playing the organ and piano when needed, and organizing and directing the Sister Singers.

Tom Cioppa is the father of two wonderful kids (now adults), a college  professor, a guitar player, and the husband of UUCMC legend Stacy Abate.

June 9, 2024

A Multigenerational Celebration of Bridging, New Members, and Flower Communion
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano, Sari Alburtus, Lisa Arcoleo

As we finish out the congregational year, honoring our new members, bridging our youth into adulthood, and participating in our annual Congregational Business Meeting, please bring a flower with you to the service to add to bouquets symbolic of us all. Click here to watch the lovely service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, UU Singers, Kenneth Almquist, Joel DeWitt, Craig Sunada

June 2, 2024

Wholehearted Living as Renewal: Pride Sunday               Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

Our theme for the month of June is “renewal,” and this morning we’ll contemplate how being wholeheartedly ourselves is the best kind of renewal there is. Brother David Steindl-Rast describes wholeheartedness as the antidote to exhaustion, not rest. On this special Sunday, let’s march together in the Asbury Park Pride Parade, feeling renewed as our beautiful, loved, wholehearted selves. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky and Rev. Craig

May 26, 2024

Music Sunday 2024                              Dr. Louise Chernosky, Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano, and Friends

Join us for a Sunday celebrating UUCMC’s many musicians and ensembles. As we engage with our monthly theme of pluralism, let us listen for the many voices, musical styles, and musical expressions that—together—create UUCMC’s joyful noise! Click here to watch the service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, Cups Group, Roots and Wings, UkUlele Orchestra, Sister Singers, Music Director Emerita Elaine Held, UU Singers, Joel DeWitt, Craig Sunada, Karen Geer, Betsy Sunada, and Rev. Craig

May 19, 2024

What Time Is It?                                                   Rev. Julie Newhall, guest minister

While sentient species are aware of the seasons, we humans are the species that obsesses about the specific dimensions of time itself. Have you ever lived through an entire day without knowing the time? Click here to watch the service.

Music by Helen Kho and PJ Casbar

Reverend Julie Newhall was ordained at UUCMC twenty years ago.  She has served as a settled minister, a consulting minister, a hospital chaplain, a teacher at Brookdale Community College, and as a guest speaker at fellowships and congregations in Florida, New Jersey, New York, New Zealand, and North Carolina.

May 12, 2024

A Multigenerational Celebration of Caregivers’ Day
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano & Sari Alburtus

On this Mother’s Day, we will broaden the scope of things a bit and draw upon the stories of those caregivers in our lives. Who are the caregivers who have been most special to you? Click here to watch the lovely service.

Music by Tom McCormack and Rev. Craig

May 5, 2024

Partnering for Justice                                        Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano & Rev. Tom Rosiello

As Unitarian Universalists, we partner with one another and with organizations doing important justice work in local and global communities. Following up on Rev. Craig’s visits to Mexico this past fiscal year and anticipating future cooperation, this morning is a unique opportunity to partner in worship with our sibling UU congregation in San Miguel de Allende. Our May share-the-plate organization is Libros para todos (Books for All), an organization we partnered with last year that promotes literacy and books in Guanajuato province. ¡A todos, la bienvenida!  Click here to watch the service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, Malcolm Halliday, Rev. Craig

April 28, 2024

Spirituality as Communion: Interdependence and Volunteerism
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

As we stressed last month, UUCMC is only as strong as its members and friends make it through their talent, time, and treasure. This morning, we celebrate the time and treasure aspect of our giving, with an emphasis on volunteerism. Our spirituality is centered in communion—in our being in community with one another. Let us gather, once again, to create a sacred space in which to thrive together. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Sarah and Dr. David Fischell & Friends

April 21, 2024

Community and Renewal: A Multigenerational Celebration of Passover and Earth Day
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano and Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

The celebrations of Passover and Earth Day aren’t as separate as one might imagine, for the Jewish festival had its origins in harvest rituals associated with the emergence of Spring, and both involve communal gatherings with promises made for an interdependent future. This morning, all ages will profit from the lessons of the seasons of the Earth. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, UU Singers, Karen Geer

April 14, 2024

Cycles in Life                                                          Rev. Kerwin Webb, Guest Minister

Seed. Time. Harvest. These are three c components that are part of the cycle in our lives. Based on Matthew 13:3-9 (HCSB), this message will explore the parable that Jesus spoke to his disciples and how the lessons of the parable can be applied to our lives. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Elaine Held, UkUlele Orchestra, Sarah & David Fischell

Reverend Kerwin Webb is an ordained Baptist minister currently serving as a Visiting Minister at Martin Luther King, Jr. Presbyterian Church in Neptune, NJ. Rev. Webb earned a Bachelor of Business Administration from Alabama State University (2004) and a Master of Divinity from Princeton Theological Seminary (2019). Rev. Webb’s guiding scripture is Romans 12:2: “And do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable, and perfect will of God.” (NKJV)

April 7, 2024

The 2024 Myra Zinke Lecture
Hopes and Prayers for SCOTUS: United States v. Rahimi
Karen Geer; Jay Blotsky, Guest Worship Coordinator

This significant Supreme Court case wrestles with the intersection of domestic violence and Second Amendment gun rights. We will look briefly at the court case and the issues presented, and visit a glimmer of hope as the Court searches for a new standard to evaluate gun issues. The Unitarian Universalist Association joined in a brief with other religious leaders to support the government’s ability to limit domestic violence perpetrators possessing guns. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, ImpromptUU Singers

A congregant of UUCMC, the late Dr. Myra Zinke, a Holmdel internist and psychiatrist, recognized very early how cultural issues impinged on women’s physical and mental health. She held a steadfast ethical vision and left a bequest to us for an annual speaker on women’s issues and to promote gender equality.

Karen Geer is a member of UUCMC, the Worship Committee, and the UU Choir. Karen received her J.D. from Fordham University School of Law and received the Keith Miller Award and other Senior Prizes. She also has an L.L.M. from Pace University in Environmental Law. Karen is licensed to practice law in New York. She practiced at Harris Beach, LLP in the Science and Medical Devices Unit and served as National Coordinating Counsel in various Multi-District Litigations. The firm was located in Two World Trade Center and, after the terrorist attack, Karen transitioned to non-profit management and is a non-profit consultant specializing in Restructuring and Turnaround Management. Karen served as the Interim Executive Director for a large domestic violence center in New Jersey until March, 2024.

March 31, 2024

A Multigenerational Celebration of Easter
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano and Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

Whatever our religious or nonreligious path, we can all learn to appreciate the lessons of Easter, a holy day named for the goddess of Spring, and featuring one of the most dramatic stories of transformation ever recorded. This will be a time to be present with all ages, to be UUCMC in all its dimensions, together, in our beautiful Earth Room. Let us rise to the occasion of our own rebirth as a congregation: it happens every time we gather with intention! Click here to watch the service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, UU Singers, Elaine Held

March 24, 2024

Spring is in the Air                                             Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

In the northern hemisphere, we have crossed over the vernal equinox, and the world around us gives us daily lessons in rebirth, change, growth, and hope. On this final in a series of Stewardship Sundays, let’s celebrate the lessons we find in the gardens of our lives while being inspired by the lessons of the Jewish festival of Purim and the Christian celebration of Palm Sunday. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Helen Kho and Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita

March 17, 2024

Barbie: The Quest for Truth                            Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

This Women’s History Month, join us for a service inspired by the surprising wisdom found in the unlikeliest of places: the world of Barbie! The Barbie movie was co-written and directed by Greta Gerwig, who grew up immersed in the values of a Unitarian Universalist congregation. Prepare to be surprised, laugh, and reflect as we explore the unexpected depths of the movie and discover how her plastic world reflects profound truths about our own. Click here to watch the service. 

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, PJ Casbar, Dan Chernosky

March 10, 2024

Transformation: Women’s History Month           Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

It’s Women’s History month, and this morning we will hear from women authors, composers, and artists as they teach us about change and transformation, our congregational theme for March. Come be a part of the change, as we live into being UUCMC for a hopeful future. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, UkUlele Orchestra

March 3, 2024 10:30am

Planting Seeds of Love: The Gardeners of our Future        Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

We unveil our Annual Stewardship Campaign theme for the 2024–25 Fiscal Year: “Seeds of Love.” March will feature testimonies and inspiration for a rebirth of who we are as UUCMC. No one is coming to do it for us. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. And we know that All Things Grow with Love. UUCMC needs every one of us. Please make it a priority to be at this service. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, UU Singers and Friends, Thomas Cannizzaro, Kirsten Norberg

February 25, 2024

Love Is the Key                                                    Guest Speaker

How do we respond to the divine love flowing through us and all creation, which calls us to love our neighbors as ourselves? Join us as we explore ways to tap into this river of love and help it transform us and the world. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, Roots & Wings Drum Choir

February 18, 2024

Random Acts of Kindness Day: A Multigenerational Service
Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM and Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

Begun in New Zealand in 2004, Random Acts of Kindness Day is celebrated in the United States on February 17th, urging people to “pay it forward” in random acts that demonstrate six concepts related to kindness: respect, caring, inclusiveness, integrity, responsibility, and courage. In this service, all ages will explore how kindness embodies Unitarian Universalist values and brings us closer to a Beloved Community with justice and equity for all. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, UkUlele Orchestra, Rev. Craig

February 11, 2024

Love at the Center of our Values                   Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

Every 15 years, the Association of UU Congregations takes a new look at the second article of its Bylaws: its Purposes and Covenant. In the Covenant have been the Seven Principles (to which UUCMC voted to add an 8th on dismantling oppressions). This year, the Commission in charge of revising Article II has proposed (for General Assembly delegates’ approval vote in June)  a new way of thinking about what it calls our values. The flower graphic for the proposal has six petal values with Love at the center for, “we live our shared values through the spiritual discipline of Love.” As Valentine’s Day approaches, let us strive to understand Love as that powerful force that holds us tight and will not let us go. Click here to watch the LOVEly service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, UU Singers

February 4, 2024

Continuing to Live Our 8th Principle           Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

As we begin Black History Month and open exploration of our monthly congregational theme of Justice and Equity, we know that there always is antiracist work to do. This Sunday we’ll garner some insights from some recent publications to see how we might take next steps in living into our vowed 8th Principle of dismantling oppressions within ourselves and our institutions. Click here to watch the service on YouTube.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky

January 28 2024

Change and Growth                                            Pauline Nijander, guest speaker

One of life’s constants is that things will always change. The question then, is what do we do with things when they change in ways we were not expecting? That’s where the opportunity for growth comes into our lives, giving us a potential gift toward betting ourselves. Join us on this Sunday as we dive into change, and the possible growth from it. Click here to watch the service.

Music by Elaine Held, Music Director Emerita; PJ Casbar

January 21, 2024

10 Years Ago …                                                     Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

It was ten years ago to the day that Rev. Craig first walked through the meetinghouse doors (and he was late for his appointment, as it turns out!). He will look back over an internship, a co-ministry, a contract ministry, and, now, a settled ministry, to see what lessons stand out for him. What have you learned these past ten years? Click here to watch the delightful service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, Ruby Chernosky, Rev. Craig

January 14, 2024 

“And Service Is Our Prayer”: A Multigenerational MLK Day of Worship and Service
Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano and Michelle McKenzie-Creech, CDFM

The words of Universalist minister L.Griswold Williams are among the most quoted in UU congregations: “Love is the doctrine of this congregation, the quest for knowledge is our sacrament, and service is our prayer.” Today, in honor of the legacy of the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., we examine how service can be our prayer, and we live into service—for our own community and beyond. Click here to watch this moving service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, UU Singers, Karen Geer

January 7th, 2024

Let It Be a Dance We Do                                   Rev. Dr. Craig Rubano

A dance between two people is a kind of covenantal bond, with leading and following or just sharing, but with interconnected interest, and, hopefully, some love thrown in for good measure! Last year, our “Dancing in the New Year” was such a big hit, we’re going to do it again. As we inaugurate our monthly congregational theme of Liberating Love, let’s start a new calendar year with as much respect for one another and for our beloved UUCMC as we and it deserve.  Click here to watch the lovely service.

Music by Dr. Louise Chernosky, Core of Fire Interfaith Dancc Ministry, Yamê Bado and Krizia Celeste, Roots and Wings Drum Choir, and Rev. Craig

Yamê Bado is a RYT® 200 Yoga Alliance certified yoga teacher, a YOGABODY® Breathing Coach, a Middle Eastern dance teacher with over 16 years’ experience, and a professional mermaid/underwater performer. She has a passion for learning, teaching, and empowering clients with the tools they need to create peace and joy for themselves, from the inside out.

CORE OF FIRE is an interfaith dance ministry of mature women, who use the healing power of dance to combine spiritual connection and creative movement into choreography that speaks to one’s deepest longings to express awe, wonder and anguish of the life experience.