Teaching Children Generosity

As we approach the holiday season, I have been reflecting about how and what children learn about giving. Generosity is a part of a family’s core values; therefore, children must learn generosity from their parents, right? Unfortunately, in many families, the process of giving is invisible to children. Do they know why you pledge to our congregation, teach religious education or donate items to charitable organizations?

Making a difference almost always involves “time, talent and treasure.” Helping children understand volunteerism, thoughtful engagement, and the real need for money to be applied to problem solving builds deep awareness of each individual’s role in building community. Kids may not understand what it means to write a check to charity, but there are many activities families can do together to help children better understand. Talk to your children about why and how you give of your time, talents and treasures.

Be creative! Children can give more than money. They can give clothes, toys, and services as well as many other things. Take your children to serve a meal at a local food kitchen or donate clothing and toys to an organization. Talk to your children about how their generosity helps other people feel good and help them learn that giving can be its own reward. Last but not least: lead by example!

Yours in community,

Michelle